Tribute & Message From The Family
PATRICIA L. PARKER
(SHATS)
Age 62, of Lockport passed away Saturday, October 29th, 2016 at Silver Cross Hospital in New Lenox.
Patricia is survived by her loving family, husband, Ben Parker, son, Nick Parker, siblings, Mary (Joe) Fontanetta, Joanne (Chris Adas) Hecht, John (Judy) Shats, Jim (Geri) Shats, Nancy (Joe) Sirilla, lifelong dear friend, Karen Kucer and numerous nieces, nephews and cousins.
Patricia was preceded in death by her parents, Vito & Bernice Shats (Zalnerunas).
Patricia was a dedicated wife and mother who greatly enjoyed spending time with her family; she also was a lifelong Chicago Cubs fan.
A memorial service is planned at St. Dennis Church, 1214 S. Hamilton Street, Lockport, IL 60441 on Saturday, November 5th, 2016 at 1:00 PM. Interment will be private. For information, www.goodalememorialchapel.com or 815-838-1533
Condolence & Memory Journal
Patsy was the best friend anyone could ever ask for. Whenever someone needed guidance or support, she was there. We had so many fun times, from kids, working at Western Electric, and thru all of life's adventures. She was the "mother" for so many, always laughing. She loved St. Joseph Park's picnic's in the summer and doing the traditional trek to Indian Dunes Beach once a year. 2014 Christmas gathering was the best Christmas I've had for many years! We will all miss her dearly.
In Memory of My Oldest and Dearest Friend, Patsy
I wanted to make you happy,
I knew your time here wouldn't last,
Your light was growing dimmer,
As we reminisced about the past,
The fun times and memories we all cherished,
with friends and family here,
would be the only thing left for us, just your memory,
and our hearts full of tears.
I tried to make your time here a little brighter,
As your flame was burning out,
I tried to make it easier,
I still don't know this life's all about.
When there was no hope,
and things just seemed all wrong,
Your strength came naturally, from your heart,
And you pretended to be strong.
Your text message to call you,
Is still on my phone,
Let's go for Margaritas!
Call me, I'll be home!
You were so proud
of your beloved son and husband;
We seen it in your eyes.
As they ask for your guidance,
They will look up towards the sky.
Heaven has another Beautiful Angel,
This Angel's name is Patsy,
For now we miss her dearly;
But one day, our tears will cease,
And together again,
We'll all be happy.
Posted by
Karen Kucer - Lockport, IL - Friend November 07, 2016
To my sister-in-law you will be missed. Thank you for all the love you gave Ben and Nick you were a wonderful woman. You lived a very fulfilled life and everyone who knew you was touched in some way by your kindness. I hope you meet up with Mom and Dad and have a great time in Heaven where there is no pain and suffering and everyone is happy, Love Patti
Posted by
Patti Parker Palmere - Phoenix, AZ - Family November 03, 2016
Mike and I send our love and heartfelt sympathy to Ben and Nick and Patsy's sisters and brothers. We were so saddened to hear of Patsy's untimely passing. It is comforting to know she is now without pain in the loving arms of Jesus. We have countless memories of great times we had with Patsy. Our friend Sheila and I were able to get together with Patsy in August for a reunion lunch - we will treasure that memory. Love & Prayers - Louise & Mike Naples
Posted by
Louise & Mike Naples November 02, 2016
Debbie and I send our sincere condolence and prayers.
Posted by
Rich Cronborg - Wheaton November 01, 2016
Our deepest sympathy to all the family. Her happy personality and contagious laugh will be missed at family gatherings.
Posted by
Norm & Donna Hecht - Peotone, IL November 01, 2016
Our deepest sympathy to all the family. Her happy personality and contagious laugh will be missed at family gatherings.
Posted by
Norm & Donna Hecht - Peotone, IL November 01, 2016
So sad to hear of your passing. A life-long family friend. You will be missed more than you know. I thought for sure you had this whipped and wasn't giving in to Cancer. Now who will I play Trivia Crack with?
Posted by
linda marcolina - Gardn Grove, CA - Family Friend October 31, 2016
You will be greatly missed.
Sorry for your loss, she was a wonderful person inside and out.
Posted by
Pat Neff - Lockport, IL - Friend October 31, 2016
A good friend. Always remembered, always loved.
Posted by
Cindy caruso - braidwood, IL - Friend October 31, 2016