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Well, it's 2-20-18. Haven't written you lately because I have some medical issues. I haven't even had a chance to visit your site. God, I hope it's true that you are at peace and all your tossing, pain , and grief are over, it's the only consolation I have. I miss you terribly. Many a time I have picked up the phone to call you. I don't know if you can but please watch over Delaney, Dani, Helen, & Cain (me too). I still can't believe you are gone. My heart aches for you my beloved son. FhYVd


Posted by: BERNADETTE PAVLIK PAVLIK - CHICAGO RIDGE, IL, IL   Feb 20, 2018

I love you and miss you something unbearable. God, I hope it's true that you are at peace with no more turmoil, grief, or unrest.


Posted by: BERNADETTE PAVLIK - CHICAGO RIDGE, IL, IL - Mother   Jan 09, 2018

Hi, my son.it's 1/2/18/ Can't wish you happy new year' cuz you won't see another new year. This is my Facebook with you. I took all the snow off your site cuz I wanted the sun to shine on you and I cleaned off your head stone. Lord, I missed you not calling me on New Year's Eve. All the prayers and consolation refrains say you are happy . J.R. give me a sign, let me know you are happy.

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Posted by: bernadette PAVLIK - CHICAGO RIDGE, IL, IL - Mother   Jan 02, 2018

Oh my J.R., I miss you something awful. I just can't believe you are gone, I can't! It's the day after Christmas. No J.R. at Wagner Christmas gathering, no J.R. Christmas morning, no J.R. for Chinese food. No J.R......oh, how I miss you. I hope you are watching very closely over your girls. I'm worried about them. They are not in contact with me or Helen. I know you didn't want to leave your girls so take care of them.

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Posted by: BERNADETTE PAVLIK - CHICAGO RIDGE, IL, IL - Mother   Dec 26, 2017

Well, Turkey Day has passed. Didn't cook a bird this year, couldn't do it without you being here. We went to Michel's. Just need to cook my own bird. The rushing, stressful Christmas season is in full swing, glad you don't have to worry about it. Guess it's time to tell you that I haven't seen your beautiful daughters since you left us. No site, phone, text, NOTHING, It was weird making Christmas list, all of sudden you and girls

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Posted by: BERNADETTE PAVLIK - CHICAGO RIDGE, IL, IL - Mother   Dec 13, 2017

Hi, Baby,
Well it's Thanksgiving, first holiday without you. It is painful. I can't save you the turkey skin cuz it's the first time I'm not cooking a turkey in 50 years. You're not here to enjoy it. Put a little glass pumpkin with your Christmas wreath by your site.Words can't express how much I miss you. All the literature says you home and your pain and grief and restless tossing is over. It's just that I can't grasp that your gone. I love you J.R. Don't forget us.Z


Posted by: BERNADETTEBL PAVLIK - CHICAGO RIDGE, IL, IL - Mother   Nov 23, 2017

Just looked back at my "messages" to you and it shows 10/19/17. My Lord, has it been that long since I've "talked" with you. It's 11-6-17, leaves are falling and it's cold and rainy. Helen made you a beautiful vase for your site. I feel better knowing you have a decoration at your site. Lord, I could go on.......J.R. I miss you so much. There's times when I would pick up the phone to text you or call you. It

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Posted by: bernadette PAVLIK - CHICAGO RIDGE, IL, IL - Mother   Nov 08, 2017

Well, I guess this is our Facebook. In a few hours it will be 2 months since you left me. J.R. I miss you something awful. I visit your site every week and trying to figure out if real flowers or fake flowers should be in your holder. I have your picture in the box. I had to take the pot of flowers away the other day because the cemetery says all needs to be cleared by 10-15. It was

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Posted by: bernadette PAVLIK - CHICAGO RIDGE, IL, IL - Mother   Oct 09, 2017

Well, Baby, it's been 2months since I saw you last. It;s been 1 month since you left me. The pain of missing you is horrible. I cry waking, I cry during the day, I cry at night. J.R. my whole body is broken I miss you so much. I just can't believe you're gone and I think about you being alone. They say life goes on, well, it does but my life will never be the same. I put some

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Posted by: bernadette PAVLIK - CHICAGO RIDGE, IL, IL - Mother   Sep 10, 2017

Well, my J.R. it's been 18 days since you left me. . I cry everyday, mostly all day. I cannot believe you are gone. Helen says you are at peace, God, I hope so. I just can't wrap your being gone around my head. I put a little memorial planter by you r cemetery site and brought you a fresh flower from my garden yesterday. I love you so much. May the peace of the Lord fill you up. You are a good person and always was. Love


Posted by: bernadette PAVLIK - CHICAGO RIDGE, IL, IL - Mother   Aug 28, 2017